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Погледнете тези две книги от Alfie Kohn в Google Books:

Unconditional Parenting: 

Moving from Rewards and Punishment to Love and Reason

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PRINCIPLES OF UNCONDITIONAL PARENTING
за принципите, на които се гради взаимното уважение между деца и родители 

Punished by Rewards 

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GOOD KIDS WITHOUT THE GOODIES 

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Статии за родители

• UNCONDITIONAL PARENTING: Beyond Bribes and Threats
• RAISING REBELS: Helping Kids to Challenge the Status Quo
• PUSHED TOO HARD: Parenting in an Achievement-Crazy Culture


• homework: why there's no benefit to making kids work what amounts to a second shift, and what we can do to reclaim family time
• motivation to learn: why grades and other rewards prove counterproductive
• progressive education: why it makes more sense than traditional instruction
• competition: why all our children ultimately lose in the race to win - at home, at school, and at play
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